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I’m Thankful for Getting Kinky… Holiday Style.

Yes, this turkey is naked… it’s getting kinky too!

Getting kinky during the holidays can be a mega-challenge. But you know who’s up for it? Me. And John of course. 😂

And, since you’re reading this, I’ll go ahead and assume you’re looking to get into a little bit of kink yourself… no matter where you are during the holiday season. If you’re planning on getting kinky during any of your holiday travel this year, you’re gonna wanna keep reading.

Yes, even if you’re at your childhood home. 😳

I Love Getting Kinky On the Road

One of my favorite ways to get kinky over the holidays is on a road trip. I’ll dress in loose-fitting clothing and do my damnedest to tease John the whole trip. I’ll take my time taking care of myself, slowly tracing my fingers along my inner thighs, gently rubbing on the outside of my panties, until I feel myself begin to get wet. Sometimes, I’ll feel like moaning, so I’ll let them slip out as they happen naturally.

Sometimes I’ll even take it all the way to it’s natural end… an orgasm, right there with a bunch of cars whizzing by, with no idea of what is even going on.

You know who does, though? John! And let’s just say, by the time we get to our destination… I’m the dessert!

I Love Doin’ It Somewhere ‘Forbidden’

Ok, ok, I’ll admit it. I always got a little secret thrill whenever a partner took me to visit the house they grew up in. There’s something sweet about seeing treasures from their childhood and hearing stories about them from other folks that share the same love that I do. I love the opportunity to hear about a time when my partner was younger and more vulnerable… not as beaten down by the world as we all are when we’re adults, lol.

The other thing I love about visiting my partner’s childhood home? Gettin’ busy! There’s something evilly delicious about getting ’em all worked up in a situation where they are forced to be silent, wouldn’t you agree?

If you’ve never tried it before, I recommend starting out a little vanilla with some straightforward childhood bedroom sex. However, if you’re a more experienced kinkster like me, I’d suggest teasing the crap out of them until they are whisper-begging to cum. Bonus points if you use some creative restraints! (and if you can’t be creative, I suggest packing some in your luggage, just in case. I suggest this. Rope is easy to pack… and explain! 😂)

I Love Using Toys to Get Kinky

Now, I’ll only recommend this to you if you’re planning on attending an adult holiday event, but investing in a remote control vibe can fill the most boring event with your own brand of holiday magic.

Normally when we play with our remote control or app-enabled toys, I let John take the lead. I mean, you can kind of gather that given the two other scenarios I shared above. I like to tease, lol… and John deserves his payback. 😯

So, what I’ll do is place the vibe in it’s intended location, (I’m partial to We-Vibes, myself), hand the remote to whichever partner I’m playing with that evening and just go about my evening as normal. The first buzz is always a shocker, as you might expect, but once my partner watches me try to hide my reaction, it’s game on.

Sometimes they will relentlessly tease me with no warning or pattern. Other times, I’ll just get pulses of surprise buzzing, no apparent goal in mind other than just making me react. And, yes, there are rare occasions when I will full on have an orgasm in public and no one other than my partner is the wiser.

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