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Mindfulness, A Non-Woo-Woo Explanation

Mindfulness is not a higher level of consciousness achieved through countless hours of meditation & contemplation of place in the universe. At least it’s not for this non-woo-woo sceptic. In non-woo-woo terms, mindfulness is focus. It’s being present and engaged without distractions. It’s the ability to clear your mind of random thoughts not relevant to […]

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Cock Rings: The Science

A cock ring is a loop of plastic, rubber or metal that is worn either around the shaft of the penis or under the scrotum. Beyond being a decoration, there is actually medical science on how this simple device and help penis owners get and maintain erections. Whan a penis owner becomes aroused, the penile […]

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A Tale of Horror and Ghost… ing!

By John C. Luna It was a few days before Christmas and our families were out of town. We had 2 weeks of vacation to “use or lose”, so we had no commitments till after the new year. We also recently became empty nesters. This convergence of circumstances seemed too good to true. As in […]

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What is Fairvilla University?

While many people may not think an adult novelty shop a.k.a. sex shop, as a safe place to learn about sex; it is now becoming the place to go for comprehensive sex education. Sex-Positive Shops such as The Pleasure Chestand Good Vibrations have been offering classes, workshops and seminars for several years throughout all their stores. Good Vibrations even has […]

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Why do we love to publicly shame personal choices?

On Friday I was listening to the morning show Johnny’s House on XL106.7. They have a segment called Sidetakers where two people call in to have their dispute settle by the audience and must agree to abide to the audience’s decision. This week Sidetakers featured two women, Sharon & Dawn, who called in about their upcoming girls weekend in Key […]

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What’s Missing in Medical Training Today?

Last weekend my wife & I volunteered at an event to educate people on sexual wellness, hygiene, consent, and boundaries. One note to mention is that this event was held at a community for the mentally challenged (hoping I used the correct term). Although the reason I’m writing this story has nothing to do with […]

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Starting as a Dominant

I’ve been in the kink lifestyle, meaning swinging, for over 10 years but it’s only been the last year that I have been exploring BDSM. My wife and I have were familiar with the local dungeon and started with weekly roping classes. Soon it became classes twice a week plus a weekend night. Then the […]

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Closing a Relationship

These days you can find an abundance of articles, videos and podcasts about polyamory, swinging and open relationships. Some caution about the damaging affects and call it an immoral activity. Others praise the emotional and sexual benefits and believe it to be more of an identity rather than just a hobby. Although these alternative relationships […]

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The Importance of the 3 C’s of Relationships

You are curious about being kinky but do not know where to start. You finally attend a Kink 101 workshop where they start throwing out words like Safe, Sane Consensual (SSC) or Risk Awareness Consensual Kink (RACK). Your mind goes into a  head spin because they are talking about communication, negotiations,  boundaries, consent and more. That you feel […]

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Movement when Roped

Last night my wife and I planned an intimate evening at home. I laid out my rope as she undressed. First, I wrapped her chest and we were both having fun. Next, I tied her legs so they could not be extended. Nothing fancy just a basic tie I’ve done before. She laid back and […]

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