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Angelique: My Favorite Way to Orgasm

July 31 is one of our very favorite holidays: National Orgasm Day. This should come as no big surprise any of our readers, we’re thinking. If you know anything about us, you know that we LOVE celebrating sex in all its glorious forms: kinky, vanilla, BDSM, romantic… we enjoy and find value in the massive […]

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The Top 5 Events We’d Like to See at the Sex Olympics

The Tokyo Opening Ceremonies are tonight, and already the Olympians have been in the news for sexy things. Have you read about their cardboard beds? Sustainable, yes, but not so great for doin’ it (although this Irish gymnast may have proven this theory wrong, lol). All of these articles about sex and the Olympics put […]

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Celebrating 9 Years of Kinky Marriage

This week we celebrated 9 years of kinky marriage. Now, given the state of the world today, that must seem like an incredible feat, but, trust us, it has (mostly) been smooth sailing for all 108 months (You know John’s engineering brain had to do the math, lol). But we don’t wanna tell you about […]

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Relationship Flavors

Depending on how we were raised by society, religion, and/or the media, is how we learned about relationships. Most of us were taught the only kind of relationship, available or valid, was that of a husband and wife. The only place to be married was in a church. We were told our goal was to […]

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Mindfulness, A Non-Woo-Woo Explanation

Mindfulness is not a higher level of consciousness achieved through countless hours of meditation & contemplation of place in the universe. At least it’s not for this non-woo-woo sceptic. In non-woo-woo terms, mindfulness is focus. It’s being present and engaged without distractions. It’s the ability to clear your mind of random thoughts not relevant to […]

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Cock Rings: The Science

A cock ring is a loop of plastic, rubber or metal that is worn either around the shaft of the penis or under the scrotum. Beyond being a decoration, there is actually medical science on how this simple device and help penis owners get and maintain erections. Whan a penis owner becomes aroused, the penile […]

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A Tale of Horror and Ghost… ing!

By John C. Luna It was a few days before Christmas and our families were out of town. We had 2 weeks of vacation to “use or lose”, so we had no commitments till after the new year. We also recently became empty nesters. This convergence of circumstances seemed too good to true. As in […]

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What is Fairvilla University?

While many people may not think an adult novelty shop a.k.a. sex shop, as a safe place to learn about sex; it is now becoming the place to go for comprehensive sex education. Sex-Positive Shops such as The Pleasure Chestand Good Vibrations have been offering classes, workshops and seminars for several years throughout all their stores. Good Vibrations even has […]

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Why do we love to publicly shame personal choices?

On Friday I was listening to the morning show Johnny’s House on XL106.7. They have a segment called Sidetakers where two people call in to have their dispute settle by the audience and must agree to abide to the audience’s decision. This week Sidetakers featured two women, Sharon & Dawn, who called in about their upcoming girls weekend in Key […]

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What’s Missing in Medical Training Today?

Last weekend my wife & I volunteered at an event to educate people on sexual wellness, hygiene, consent, and boundaries. One note to mention is that this event was held at a community for the mentally challenged (hoping I used the correct term). Although the reason I’m writing this story has nothing to do with […]

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