Depending on how we were raised by society, religion, and/or the media, is how we learned about relationships. Most of us were taught the only kind of relationship, available or valid, was that of a husband and wife. The only place to be married was in a church. We were told our goal was to […]
Mindfulness is not a higher level of consciousness achieved through countless hours of meditation & contemplation of place in the universe. At least it’s not for this non-woo-woo sceptic. In non-woo-woo terms, mindfulness is focus. It’s being present and engaged without distractions. It’s the ability to clear your mind of random thoughts not relevant to […]
A cock ring is a loop of plastic, rubber or metal that is worn either around the shaft of the penis or under the scrotum. Beyond being a decoration, there is actually medical science on how this simple device and help penis owners get and maintain erections. Whan a penis owner becomes aroused, the penile […]
By John C. Luna It was a few days before Christmas and our families were out of town. We had 2 weeks of vacation to “use or lose”, so we had no commitments till after the new year. We also recently became empty nesters. This convergence of circumstances seemed too good to true. As in […]
While many people may not think an adult novelty shop a.k.a. sex shop, as a safe place to learn about sex; it is now becoming the place to go for comprehensive sex education. Sex-Positive Shops such as The Pleasure Chestand Good Vibrations have been offering classes, workshops and seminars for several years throughout all their stores. Good Vibrations even has […]
On Friday I was listening to the morning show Johnny’s House on XL106.7. They have a segment called Sidetakers where two people call in to have their dispute settle by the audience and must agree to abide to the audience’s decision. This week Sidetakers featured two women, Sharon & Dawn, who called in about their upcoming girls weekend in Key […]
Last weekend my wife & I volunteered at an event to educate people on sexual wellness, hygiene, consent, and boundaries. One note to mention is that this event was held at a community for the mentally challenged (hoping I used the correct term). Although the reason I’m writing this story has nothing to do with […]
I’ve been in the kink lifestyle, meaning swinging, for over 10 years but it’s only been the last year that I have been exploring BDSM. My wife and I have were familiar with the local dungeon and started with weekly roping classes. Soon it became classes twice a week plus a weekend night. Then the […]
These days you can find an abundance of articles, videos and podcasts about polyamory, swinging and open relationships. Some caution about the damaging affects and call it an immoral activity. Others praise the emotional and sexual benefits and believe it to be more of an identity rather than just a hobby. Although these alternative relationships […]
You are curious about being kinky but do not know where to start. You finally attend a Kink 101 workshop where they start throwing out words like Safe, Sane Consensual (SSC) or Risk Awareness Consensual Kink (RACK). Your mind goes into a head spin because they are talking about communication, negotiations, boundaries, consent and more. That you feel […]