July 31 is one of our very favorite holidays: National Orgasm Day. This should come as no big surprise any of our readers, we’re thinking. If you know anything about us, you know that we LOVE celebrating sex in all its glorious forms: kinky, vanilla, BDSM, romantic… we enjoy and find value in the massive variety of ways we can find pleasure in our bodies.
Some other sites will be giving you suggestions about how you can celebrate National Orgasm Day, but not us, cause we know our readers are smart enough to figure that part out on their own. You know what , though? Just in case you’re like John and really enjoy an organized list, here’s a cute one for you:
Ok, let’s talk about the real reason for the blog this week: my favorite way to orgasm. Now, you might be saying to yourself, ‘Self, I have a penis and Angelique does not! How could this possibly work for me?’ And I am here to tell you that my favorite way to orgasm is NOT equipment dependent, meaning it can be used by EVERY body, a vagina is NOT a requirement. (But they are a lot of fun, just sayin’.)
Edging – What is it?
My favorite way to orgasm is using something called “edging”. The official definition of edging, according to Wikipedia, is “a sexual technique whereby orgasm is controlled. It’s practiced alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax.”
Yes, my favorite way to orgasm is by …not. I mean, yes, I will finally allow myself to explode eventually, but I find the build up and anticipation to be almost more tantalizing than the orgasm itself, particularly if I allow the tension to build all day.
You can build up this sexual tension variety of ways, beginning with a sensual morning cuddle. Imagine your partner to bringing you to the brink of orgasm, kissing your forehead, jumping out of bed and getting ready for work without another word. How desperate for release do you think you’d be? Then, throughout the day they might send you texts and sultry snaps of themselves in various states of undress.
When you finally reconnect later that evening, you’ll find it hard to keep your mind on anything other than your big O, which, when it finally happens, is likely to rank up there with the best sexual release of your life. Honestly, though? That’s why it’s my favorite way to orgasm… because it’s about the QUALITY, not the quantity.
So, armed with this new knowledge, go forth and have massive orgasms on National Orgasm Day (Saturday, July 31, 2021)…and every other day!
Before you ask, yes, edging works deliciously well for John, too. By the end of a long day of tease and denial, he is practically begging for me to let him orgasm. And when he does? It is earth-shattering.
P.s. This type of edging play can go even deeper in dominant/submissive relationships! Subs will sometimes give control of their orgasms to the dominant partner. We could write a whole post on this topic… and you know we’ll get there eventually! Just keep reading our blog!