The Dark Side of Polyamory: Jealousy, Judgement & More

Did you know there is a dark side to polyamory? I try to focus on positive things on the blog, so it’s not something I’ve touched on yet. However, I think it is an extremely important part of living that poly life that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough. So I’m gonna talk about it …

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Losing A Friend is as Difficult as Losing a Family Member

Today, I wanted to talk about losing a friend and how deeply challenging that can be. This is something I’m going through right now and, well, it’s not been an easy time for me. Or John for that matter, but he’s been my rock and I am eternally grateful. In this day and age of …

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Bisexual Health & PrEP: What You Need to Know

As you know, John is a bisexual male. For some reason, bisexual men are less visible in the media and, in some places, less socially accepted than bisexual women, so I’m gonna give ’em the spotlight all to themselves today. Since bisexual men engage in sexual acts with other men, there some additional considerations that …

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I’m a Run Disney Princess! (And a Rope Princess!)

…And after this week, I’ll be able to prove it! You see, this weekend is the Run Disney Princess Half Marathon and, of course, I’m participating. I mean, I am a princess myself, after all. Definitely not official royalty, but I’m a Princess the same way Britney Spears is a “Pop Princess”. Let’s look at …

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Taking a Frisky Road Trip With Your “Partner”

When’s the last time you took a frisky road trip? You know the kind I’m talking about, right? You’re on the road, windows down, hair whipping everywhere, not a care in the world. Before you know it, their hand is on your thigh and you’re thinking about that hand’s final destination instead of wherever the …

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Humiliation Play for Valentine’s? That’s a YES for Me!

Folks who love humiliation play… This one’s for you! “Ugh, what do you want? You don’t think you deserve to celebrate Valentine’s Day, do you? I mean, look at you! You’re just desperate for me to give you some attention, aren’t you? Too bad. You don’t deserve it. You’re not man enough to celebrate Valentine’s …

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Single for Valentine’s Day? How to Get a Free Sexy Tarot Reading

Being single on Valentine’s Day is no fun. Heck, being single during the ramp up for Valentine’s Day can be rough too. I remember those days; the TV and radio all blared commercials about making your special lover happy on Valentine’s Day and buying them something special and taking them out for a special meal …

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Rope is Romantic: Are You Down for Getting Tied Up?

Rope is romantic. You may not agree, but getting tied up and being at the mercy of my rigger is a very sexy thing. It’s also very vulnerable place to be, with someone else completely in control of your pleasure, your body, and, most importantly, your safety. That’s why it’s important to know the proper …

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International Fetish Day: How do you get kinky?

The third Friday in January is one of my favorite holidays: International Fetish Day. According to Wikipedia, this holiday began in England in 2008 as “National Fetish Day” to “increase awareness and support of the fetish community, whilst also opposing the UK law criminalizing possession of “extreme pornography”. It is also designed to encourage members of …

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