Did you know there is a dark side to polyamory? I try to focus on positive things on the blog, so it’s not something I’ve touched on yet. However, I think it is an extremely important part of living that poly life that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough. So I’m gonna talk about it …
Read moreThe Dark Side of Polyamory: Jealousy, Judgement & More
Today, I wanted to talk about losing a friend and how deeply challenging that can be. This is something I’m going through right now and, well, it’s not been an easy time for me. Or John for that matter, but he’s been my rock and I am eternally grateful. In this day and age of …
Read moreLosing A Friend is as Difficult as Losing a Family Member
…And after this week, I’ll be able to prove it! You see, this weekend is the Run Disney Princess Half Marathon and, of course, I’m participating. I mean, I am a princess myself, after all. Definitely not official royalty, but I’m a Princess the same way Britney Spears is a “Pop Princess”. Let’s look at …
When’s the last time you took a frisky road trip? You know the kind I’m talking about, right? You’re on the road, windows down, hair whipping everywhere, not a care in the world. Before you know it, their hand is on your thigh and you’re thinking about that hand’s final destination instead of wherever the …
The third Friday in January is one of my favorite holidays: International Fetish Day. According to Wikipedia, this holiday began in England in 2008 as “National Fetish Day” to “increase awareness and support of the fetish community, whilst also opposing the UK law criminalizing possession of “extreme pornography”. It is also designed to encourage members of …
Wanna learn BDSM? Or, since I know most of you are already pretty dang kinky already, lemme ask this: Do you have any friends who wanna learn BDSM but are a little bit scared? Send them to us! We offer one-on-one private coaching for solos, couples, throuples and more who are trying to dip their …
After the ridiculousness of my poem last week, I wanted to get back to something serious: Sexy New Years Resolutions. Yup, I take the sexiness of your (and my) 2022 very seriously… and you should to. Sex is one of the easiest ways to connect with your partner, especially if you’ve done the work of …
Whether you’ve been naughty or nice this year, we’ve got some ideas to stuff your lover’s stocking with that’ll leave them feeling satisfied in the sexiest way. Now, I will warn you, these gifts might not be something you’ll want to open with your parents or kid’s on Christmas morning. These are more like a …
Read moreGet Stuffed: 5 Naughty (& Nice!) Gifts for Your Lover’s Stocking
I don’t even want to do the math to figure out how many days are left in 2021. I know it’s too few and it’s kind of scary. You know what though? It also kind of still feels like it’s March 2020 a little bit. Even though so much has changed in the world, you …
Getting kinky during the holidays can be a mega-challenge. But you know who’s up for it? Me. And John of course. 😂 And, since you’re reading this, I’ll go ahead and assume you’re looking to get into a little bit of kink yourself… no matter where you are during the holiday season. If you’re planning …
English